8 unique tips to stop fumbling and become an impressive communicator

1. Embrace the Pause: Silence isn't awkward; it's powerful. Pausing before answering or after making a point gives you time to think, adds emphasis, and allows your audience to process.

2. Mirror (Subtly): Mirroring someone's body language or speech patterns (within reason) can create a sense of connection and rapport. Be subtle; overdoing it looks unnatural.

3. "Yes, and..." (Improvisation): Borrowing from improv, "Yes, and..." encourages building on others' ideas instead of shutting them down. This fosters collaborative communication.

4. Vocal Variety: Avoid a monotone delivery. Vary your tone, pace, and volume to keep your audience engaged. A dynamic voice is more captivating.

5. Listen Actively (Beyond Hearing): Truly listen, not just wait for your turn to speak. Pay attention to body language, tone, and unspoken messages. Ask clarifying questions.

6. Tell Stories (Relatable Ones): Weave stories into your communication. Anecdotes and narratives make your message more memorable and relatable.

6. Use "You" (Sparingly and Carefully): While "you" can be engaging, overuse can sound accusatory. Use it strategically to connect with your audience, but avoid blaming or generalizing.

7. Practice in Low-Stakes Situations: Don't wait for a big presentation to work on your communication skills. Practice in everyday conversations, with friends, or even in front of a mirror.